Casino Night

Friday night, my husband’s company had a casino night at a local hotel. They brought in a company and tables so the employees could play games.

We decided to go.

I wasn’t looking forward to it. It didn’t sound like fun to me. I’ve never been drawn to casinos — ever. I know the odds are not in my favor to win — so why bother?

After dinner, and eating sulfite foods, I wasn’t feeling the best. I actually wanted to go home but instead my husband, a co-worker and the co-worker’s wife went into the ballroom to see about playing a casino game. Upon entry, we were informed they had blackjack, poker, blah-blah-blah. It was all foreign to me. I don’t know how to play these games — and frankly, I could care less.

Even worse, I was a bit intimidated because I didn’t know how to play any of them.

In typical fashion, I immediately spoke up telling all who cared to hear, I didn’t know how to play anything — and with that — they must have decided by their own lack of skills to choose the easy game. We sat down at a blackjack table.

Of course, there were no slot machines. The easiest of all to figure out.

As we sat down, the other wife also confessed to not knowing how to play. I felt a little relief!

The dealer was a real dealer from Las Vegas. She was a beautiful Hawaiian woman and she explained to us that she dealt at a blackjack high-rollers table for 11 years before leaving to marry one her gamblers! She explained the game — and when any of us made foolish mistakes, she was sweet and helped us along. It made the game a lot more fun.

We each started out with $500 in chips, and before I knew it, I was doing good.

Really good.

I started gambling $100 chips. And when I looked left and right, the other three players were struggling to stay in the game with only $5 and $25 chips remaining. I still had all my $5, $25 and $100s. I decided to make bigger bets.

It paid off.

Yet I was exhausted, and feeling really sick (I started wondering if my appendix had burst — I had sharp pains) — but in between zoning out with the pain — I was loving the thrill of it all. I loved tapping into my intuition and following the cards dealt before me – so I could guess my odds. It went well.

I realized the best seat at a blackjack table is the last one to receive a card — because you can see the deck come out before you. You can see if all high cards come or low cards and make your call for another card much easier.

I was sitting there with over $800 dollars , when I started to get really tired. I couldn’t focus with all the pains.

I remember at one point, the other players saying, “Hey you — Ms. Moneybags — you won again!” It was when I gambled another $100 chip.

I kept zoning out and then trying to focus. I told everyone at the table, I didn’t know how come I was doing so well — and since I didn’t realize I won half the time because I was in so much pain — it must have been pure luck!

My husband begs to differ with me. He tells me even in half a mind, I did great! I have a talent. And it’s a talent, he’d really like me to combine with my lie detecting skills.

That’s right. He’d like me to learn poker — and you know what? For the first time in my life, I’m really interested to do so.

Please tell me, is Blackjack just sheer luck or what?

I ended the game some two hours after we started with over $1000. No one else at the table even came close! I more than doubled my “fake” money.

If only it were real…

Did Bill Cosby do it?

That’s the big question!

Did you hear? A woman is accusing him of sexual assault.

If anyone sees any video footage of Bill Cosby talking — I’d love to see it.

Point me there.

Thanks and check back for updates.

Any other story leads – speak up as well!

Who to believe: Abdul or Clark?

Did you see the Primetime Live special last night?

I caught the last 20 minutes of it live, and then watched the beginning later on.

I definitively believe Abdul did help out Clark as he says — coaching him, giving him clothes, giving him a cell phone, haircut, CDs, etc. I have no doubt about that.

I think Abdul saw a little “Michael Jackson/Prince” combo in Clark and she wanted to give him a big break.

But when I tuned into Clark stating he had a sexual relationship with Abdul, I doubted him. I didn’t believe him. It’s just a gut instinct. Actually, upon thinking about it, I can tell you why I feel he is lying. When he talked about their “sexual affair”, his smile was not right. It spoke volumes about what he was saying. It was a deceptive smile, not a genuine smile or a egotistical male “I conquered” smile.

When American Idol let Clark go, I can tell you I believe they knew something was up between Abdul and Clark — and they fudged the reason about why they let him go. It had everything to do with Paula Abdul and nothing to do with Clark’s misdemeanor arrest. Why would they be searching for this so late into the season?

Also, Fox has now approached Clark and asked for his cooperation to help investigate his “claims” yet ironically Clark has decided not to help Fox. Why would that be? He says it’s because they didn’t help him so why should he help them? That’s a lame excuse!

Clark is trying to sell a book here!

So, I believe both Clark and Abdul are BOTH lying — and not telling the “whole” truth.

Paula Abdul lying? New cell phone for lie detecting?

In reading the new this morning, there were two interesting tidbits!

Supposedly, tonight on ABC’s Primetime Live, an ex-American Idol contestant from a previous season is going to speak out that he had an affair with Paula Abdul.

Ms. Abdul is adamantly denying it!

According to the text I have seen, the accuser is supposedly going to play a phone message left by Abdul. This should be very interesting!

If he plays a tape with her voice, you certainly won’t need my insight on the matter.

Second, MSNBC broadband is highlighting a new cell phone called “The Truster” that can supposedly “detect lies” by detecting stress. See Biz-Tech, then Sci-Tech.

However, a polygraph expert says that this “stress” reader isn’t a good indication of lies because people can be stressed for a variety of reasons and it doesn’t mean they are lying. Very true. The polygraph expert says you will be just as accurate if you flip a coin! Hmmm… I’d love to play with that tool and carry it with me to see what I think, but I’m not up for a $99 experiement! Oh well.

Hope you have a great day!

Clara Harris — Intentional or Not

Clar asked me a question this week:

I watched Oprah yesterday who had an exclusive interview with Clara Harris (the texas dentist who ran over her cheating husband 2 years ago) from jail. I’m not sure where to find footage but it would be interesting to see your opinion on whether or not you think she is telling the truth–that she did not intentionally run him over.

I taped the show.

In my opinion, I do believe that Clara Harris did intend to hit and kill her husband. I think she had a moment of intense rage where she didn’t think clearly — and she lost it.

Clara Harris is in total denial and doesn’t want to face the fact of what she did.

I have no doubt about her intentions.

What was sad was her legal defense. He should have pled the insanity defense though it wouldn’t have been successful either. Instead, he tried to show that she couldn’t have run him over twice because the radius of her car wouldn’t make it possible. I found that ridiciulous. Even if people believed that — it doesn’t address the fact Clara Harris had “intent”.