Sabrina Paige Aisenberg
/in Uncategorized/by Eyes for LiesCBS news show 48 Hours ran an updated show about the Aisenbergs Saturday night which I suspect was a re-run from earlier in the year. Do you remember the Aisenbergs?
They are couple who resided in Florida when their little girl vanished sometime in the middle of the night. The Aisenberg’s claim someone walked into their house, and took their little girl right out of her crib. They claim to have accidentally left the garage door open somehow by mistake.
I personally do not believe the Aisenbergs are being honest. I believe they know more then they are letting us in on.
When the Aisenbergs talk to the cameras, and talk to the “would-be” kidnapper, their eyes are empty. Their speech is lacking the normal emotions: over and over again.
What is odd is they are both neutral–without emotion.
Even more odd than that is the fact that I don’t see the Aisenbergs doing thorough searches for their daughter. I don’t see huge campaigns. Instead, all I see is defensive behavior.
Also, why would they leave and move from the state where their daughter disappeared? If you truly believed your daughter is alive as Marlene says, why wouldn’t you remain steadfast and stay where you last saw her? Wouldn’t that keep you close? Wouldn’t you feel like you abandon your daughter if you left the last home she knew?
I’d love nothing better for them to find Sabrina, but I hold out little hope she’ll ever be found alive and well, or kidnapped by some stranger.
Beating a Dead Horse
/in Positive Person, truth/by Eyes for LiesOkay, since the topic is so hot and people continue to wonder about the Tom/Katie relationship — Oprah re-ran the Tom Cruise Declaration of Love show this week. I taped it and watched it last night.
I am still CERTAIN that he is being honest — as is Katie.
They are truly head-over-heels for each other.
Haven’t any of you ever felt like this before??
Detecting Lies: Three Categories
/in Emotions, Microexpressions, Neutral Person, Positive Person/by Eyes for LiesI’ve realized that when I am reading someone as to whether or not they are telling the truth, I quickly categorize them into one of three categories within seconds:
Positive
Negative
Neutral
Positive people are those who immediately convince me they are trustworthy. It’s because their expressions are so genuine, or their actions, words or overall demeanor are very sincere. There is instantly no doubt about it: they are telling the truth. You just know they are being honest.
The opposite of positive is, of course, negative. Negative people do things that instantly tell me they are lying. From telling stories that don’t make sense, to awkward speech patterns, to inappropriate facial expressions that contradict their story, to endless stuttering. They give instant clues that they are being deceptive. Most often, though not always, it is the emotions on their face that tell their story first.
Neutral people who are liars are usually psychopaths.
What usually gives away that a neutral person or a pathological person is lying is that the actual events of their situation aren’t logical. These people stretch the truth, play on the “what-ifs” and the could-be-possible-odds too many times for reality to be present. When you add up all the usual bits to their story, the odds become one-in-a-million, or statistically very, very unlikely. That, combined with other subtle hints, all add up to give away a neutral or pathological liar.
A false neutral liar’s speech may become unnaturally slow as if someone taped them and played it back in slow motion. It’s rather odd, because when they speak the truth, their speech rate increases to normal or above, but when they lie, they suddenly slow their speech way down, or vice-versa. Again, a true neutral liar will not do this. He will be the same throughout the interview. He will not change or vary at all. He is highly controlled in his all of his responses, or flat out lacks emotions, which is notable.
Neutral people who are lying are usually pathological liars, though not all pathological liars are neutral.