One Heckofa Day

My dogs were acting strange today. One of them, actually, was having trouble standing upright, and couldn’t walk this morning. She acted drunk. At first I thought she might be going into liver failure (as she has hepatitis and is 16 years old), but when I added up the pieces and her symptoms, it didn’t add up. Both dogs slept in super late, but I wrote it off on the fact it was a gloomy, dark day outside–even though it was exceptionally unusual for them to do this. They usually ask for breakfast, and one demands it, but not today.

Read moreAs I sat comforting my woozy dog, petting her and crying, I got this nagging feeling about our furnace, which I’ve had for weeks. Just last week, I asked my husband to test it, but he ignored me.

When I realized it could be carbon monoxide (though our two wall detectors didn’t go off), I turned off the heat, opened all the windows, and got a new hand-held tester we bought last year after we found out we had three dangerous gas leaks. Sure enough, when I put over the heat register, it alerted to a leak. I smelled no gas, so the likely culprit was carbon monoxide.

I put my doggies on the porch and called a gas guy. Sure enough, we had a leak. Our heat exchanger is cracked and from my reading, that is serious business. So tonight we sit in a cold house, trying to decide which furnace to buy tomorrow.

And my dog, who was most affected, popped back out of it after a half hour on the front porch. She started walking normally and asked for a walk within no time. I was wondering why she was weak and didn’t want to walk this week. Now I know why. Tonight she is her old self again.

I am so grateful that I figure this one out before my dogs succumbed to this deadly gas. We’ve been having headaches, and have been extra tired. Both dogs seemed to slow down a lot in the past two to three weeks. I wondered if it was old age at times. I should have listened to my gut instinct a week ago and demanded my husband spend 10 minutes to do a simple test, or I should have done it myself. I didn’t think I could operate that little beast of a thing, but I learned today.

Tonight, I am grateful for the simple blessings, the love of my dogs and my husband, even if we don’t have heat. We are safe.

Please Send Positive Thoughts…

Update 4:30 PM: Thanks for all the thoughts. My cousin has come out of surgery, and the news looks encouraging 🙂

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My cousin was just diagnosed with cancer a few weeks ago, and she has just gone into surgery in the past half hour. It would really be comforting for me and my family to know that there are people out there sending her positive thoughts and wishes to her for a good outcome and a speedy recovery. She won’t know the extent of her illness until after surgery and after the pathology is returned next week. I’m on pins and needles.

She will be in surgery for four hours. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers. If you want to leave a message for Carol, you can do so here, and when she feels up to it, I will share it with her.

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Topic Idea or Suggestion?

I am trying to find a good place and method for you guys to share story ideas with me. I’d like to have a page setup where you all can go, suggest stories, post links and then rate which topics suggested by others are the most interesting to you.

Last week, I had a volunteer, Shina Hart, offer to help me with this, and she discovered UserVoice. It looks like the perfect tool, though I am not sure it will work at the level we need it to work in the “free version”. To upgrade, it is quite pricey at $19/month, so if this doesn’t work, we may have to investigate other avenues.

But let’s give it a try! See what you think, share your topic suggestions, and vote now. I added the first topic suggestion as a test. I suggested Nayda Suleman. I think each topic can only get 10 votes, which might be too limiting, but let’s experiment with it because it is free.

I will post a link to UserVoice on my contact page, so in the future, if you want to find it, you will know where to go.

Let me know your thoughts! Many thanks to Shina, who continues to look for and explore other options for us!

48 Hours Mystery: Point Blank

Tonight 48 Hours Mystery is airing “Point Blank”. It’s the story of what happened to Scott Rhode. Was Traci, his wife, home when he committed suicide, or was there something more sinister going on?

You be the judge.

Here are my thoughts.

My Thoughts: Ronald Cummings on Nancy Grace

What is so fascinating about this video is that Ronald Cummings isn’t on the defensive like he usually is (see video here). He is fine with everyone tightening the reins on Misty, and ironically, that doesn’t seem to bother him at all. His posture is relaxed, and his hands are splayed in front of him in a calm manner.

Read moreBut what is even more interesting is that you would expect Cummings of all people, here to be the most perplexed, mad and concerned about Misty’s inconsistencies, if he is innocent and uninvolved, but he isn’t! Cummings, like everyone else, should want to know why there are inconsistencies. He should be all over them like a wet blanket, so he can get to the truth, but he isn’t. Instead, he marries Misty and acts like it isn’t his concern or worry that she is inconsistent. This behavior does not support honesty. Is that because he already knows the answers?

Throughout the interview, Cummings is feeling positive emotions. He almost has a “glow” about him. I can’t quite put my fingers on it, but it is palpable. He is on the edge, at times, of breaking into a smile. He clearly tries several times to hold it back. I captured this image below when he said “no” at one point.

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Try saying “no” when you are serious. Your lips don’t curl up like this (see above). He is saying no and smiling very faintly at the same time. To move your lips upward like this when you feel serious and say no is very awkward to do, unless you are feeling a positive emotion.

Nancy Grace starts out by asking Cummings what Misty originally told him regarding their sleeping arrangements that night with respect to Haleigh. Notice how Ronald does what is considered a “false start”? Cummings starts talking, then stops and changes his direction.

Cummings says, “She told me that she was sleeping in the beh…, um, her and junior were sleeping in my queen size bed and that she was sleeping in the tot bed beside her…”This is quite telling. I suspect he was going to said “bed” above, but stopped mid-sentence.

Was he going to say that she was sleeping in the bed with Junior and Haleigh? When Cummings says the words”beside her,” he makes an expression of doubt with his lips and squints his eyes. He pulls his lips up on one side, like when some people say, “I don’t know.” He continues with more expressions of doubt when he says, “…three or four feet beside her, or whatever.” He squints his eyes like he is trying to recollect this, and his lips move to the opposite side this time, which is unusual for this type of memory, which should be concrete because he has talked about it so many times, if he is telling the truth.

Grace asked how everything got so mis-communicated about where Haleigh slept, and when Cummings replies, the very first few words he says, he has the slightest smirk on his face, “Ms. Nancy, I have no, no answer for you. I don’t know how it was mis-communicated.”

Grace goes on to ask if Misty told the police that Haleigh was in a separate bed, to which Cummings replies, “I wasn’t there when she was questioned by police, Ms. Nancy.” At the end of that comment, you can clearly see a grin on his face. It’s subtle but definitely there.

Grace than asks why Misty didn’t call the police immediately when she realized Haleigh was missing. Notice Cummings doesn’t answer the question, and Grace never calls him on it! Instead, he just goes into what I could call a rote speech about the events of that night. He repeats what he has repeated a thousand times. Also, notice how Cummings’ voice inflection changes? All the inflection in his voice disappears, and he talks as if he is drone, just recollecting data. He has no emotions whatsoever.

Why doesn’t Cummings feel any emotions about that devastating night? He should feel tremendous pain and anguish when thinking about the realization that his daughter is missing, or at least feeling fear, or worry he experienced that night, but he doesn’t. It’s a huge red flag. He also gets nervous, and starts wiggling in his leg again. Why is he nervous when he talks about this? Notice he feels nervousness, but he does not feel any emotions when it comes to his daughter? That’s a huge red flag.

Do you also notice how Cummings said he turned the house upside down, and then told Misty to call 911? Why didn’t he ever look outside? Isn’t that odd? Misty said the front door was propped wide open. Why wouldn’t he start canvassing the neighborhood while Misty called police? It’s just another inconsistency in his story.

Clearly, what we should be seeing in Cummings, such as serious questions for Misty, if he is truly uninvolved in Haleigh’s disappearance, are not present, and worse, he is showing signs of positive emotions, which absolutely make no sense whatsoever.

To read more of my opinions of this case, click on the labels below. To read my original opinion, you’ll need to scroll to the bottom of the page.