The Liar’s Projections

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You know the scenario: a couple of people are arguing. You listen in trying to discern who is being truthful. You hear different versions of events, and oftentimes, you are totally confused where the truth lies. One is accusing the other of lying, but you aren’t sure who lied.

Then if you are involved in the conflict, that person may start calling you a liar, too! Or if you are not involved other people become liars! BAM! Hotspot.

Sometimes everyone becomes a liar…but the person who speaks the loudest and throws the most accusations. 

What is going on? Have you experienced this before?

Pointing, Accusation, Accuse, Blame, Finger, Point

When one person starts accusing everyone else of lying while defending their honesty, they are actually indirectly pointing the finger back at themselves. 

It’s a form of psychological projection.

In projection, the liar is projecting their behavior onto others as a defense mechanism, whether it be consciously or subconsciously. And it doesn’t stop with accusing people of being liars as their projection. They may expand their accusations to include many of their negative behaviors–behaviors they, themselves, can’t own.

I always take notice of this behavior. I ask myself is there truly an injustice of great proportion (usually not), or am I witnessing projection?

It’s very rare that one person is honest and everyone else is lying–essentially ganging up against one party unfairly or by being mislead. People in groups are usually more aware and honest. It happens, of course, but I’d say less than 1 in 100 scenarios. And in those situations it usually involves confusion caused by a few with malicious intent, rather than malicious intent by many.

Projection is often done by people who have insecurity issues and can’t look at their own behavior. They are usually never wrong, either.

So next time you see someone accuse multiple people of wronging them and lying, look closest at the person making the accusations as your source of dishonesty.

Peter Chadwick’s 911 Call

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48 Hours profiled the story of Peter and Q.C. Chadwick this past weekend. Peter claims he was taken hostage after a man killed his wife in their home.

In the 911 call, we hear Peter. “My wife’s dead,” he says in the most flat inflection possible. 

His wife of 21-years is dead and that is his emotional state? A red flag.

I love how he is clearly thinking when you hear him say, “They took her. They took her.” It’s his thinking that causes me pause here. Less than 20 seconds in this man has two major red flags.

When the 911 operator asks him, “Who took her?” notice the long pause? Flag three. He has to think again! Then he says, “The guy who broke into my house.” 

Okay, at this moment for me, this case is no longer a mystery (frown face).

Peter’s 911 call is an epic fail to start off with and only gets worse. He clearly is making up the story as he talks. 

“Yeah. We…we…we’ve been driving….ah, in Newport Beach,” says Peter.

“He” ….”I”…..Peter stutters to say something coherent. 

“Who is he?” asks the 911 operator. Peter replies finally with a name, “Juan”. 

He continues with an absolutely ridiculous story about how he picked up Juan to look at some painting work at the house.

Wait a minute? 

That’s HUGE. We have two stories now!

Notice how he can’t say the word “killed” at first either? It takes him time. Often times killers have a hard time saying what they have done. 

“They have her body. They say they are going to cut her up,” says Peter. 

But they leave you behind to talk about it? Really, Peter? 

When asked how he knows she is dead, Peter replies, “She drowned. She drowned.”

But she was “killed” — which is it, Peter? Odd description from a man whose wife was murdered, isn’t it?

Then he throws in that “her body was stiff even.”

The 911 supervisor asks, “Are you on any medication, sir?” to which Peter replies, “not a heavy one.” It’s clear the 911 operator sees the story is absurd to the core! 

He even says Juan made him carry out the body — quick thinking. If they find his DNA on her, he explained it!

But Peter slips huge! If you watched 48 Hours, did you catch it?

Lt. Bryan Moore: At some point Peter and Juan separated, Juan continued upstairs, and Peter went down to his office … Peter said within seconds, he heard his wife Q.C. screaming.

Sgt. Ryan Peters: He hears Q.C. scream “Peter, Peter…” and as he runs upstairs he sees Juan strangling Q.C., who’s in the bath, in their master bedroom and he’s drowning her.

What flagged me here that was huge was if you brought Juan to your house to look at a painting project, would you just leave him alone in your house to wander? I would say it’s unlikely.

Furthermore, if Juan went upstairs and Peter heard his wife scream, then how come he talks about her “stiff body”??

The stiff body was a huge eye-opener for me at that moment. People don’t get stiff right away, but Peter DOES have a real memory of her being stiff. That gave me great pause. That statement is the TRUTH.

After Juan killed her, supposedly, Peter was tasked with carrying her body out, and it was quickly, so it should NOT have been stiff.

Peter Chadwick jumped his $1M bail and is one the U.S. Marshal’s most 15 wanted! Do you recognize him?

I hope they apprehend him soon. He needs to be held accountable!

Expression of the Day

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This is NOT a political post. This is a post on emotional expressions. What universal expression does Pelosi make in this video?

Answer below….

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Nancy Pelosi even tells you what the expression is as she says it, which is exceedingly rare to see!

I suspect it is a subconscious expression on her part.

I bet if you asked her if she knows she made a contempt expression, she would tell you no!

Please do NOT post political comments. I will delete them. Thank you!

Jesse “Madison” Holton: Dateline

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Did you catch Dateline NBC this past weekend? They profiled a mysterious double murder that happened in Eclectic, Alabama, in 2016.

Madison’s parent’s, Mike and April, were in the middle of divorce, and no longer living together when Mike found out that Madison had a party at his house when he was at work.

Mike was very upset, and called the sheriff on his son. Madison’s mom was reportedly at the home when the sheriff arrived.

Eleven minutes after the sheriff left the residence, there was a 911 call.

Madison claimed his parents got into an argument behind closed doors, and he fled to the neighbors, in handcuffs put on him by his dad–telling the neighbor that his parents were in an altercation. Madison’s dad was dead at the scene and his mother died later.

Madison was charged with the murders and served over a year in jail. Then the prosecutor dropped the case.

It’s quite a story, if you saw it.

What do you think? Do you think Madison is a killer or not?

I will share my thoughts in the coming days in the comment section.




Julian Assange and President Trump

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Julian Assange has been taken from away from his safe perch and arrested today. Did you see the news?

When you read about Assange, you see things like “villain” or “hero”–he is quite the controversy, without question. He’s even been called a terrorist by some–yet he has many defenders.

So who is he: Is he an honest guy fighting a corrupt world, or is he himself part of the corruption?

It’s very hard for me to read people who defend Assange as a hero because they obviously believe him.

While I haven’t given Assange much time personally, I will say when he spoke out on Sean Hannity’s show in 2017, he gave me a very clear window into his truthfulness, and I will tell you I wouldn’t trust this man or his motives one centimeter.

Not one.

He is, in my opinion, 100% dishonest when he denied Wikileaks involvement with Russia, and the Trump team.

I believe he, without question, absolutely talked to Putin and Trump, as well as their surrogates. He leaves no doubt in that interview as to what the truth is. He leaks continually.

Assange is a master manipulator who is skilled at evading questions, redirecting conversations and focusing people on what they want to hear to keep them away from the truth. He is capable of fooling many on a grand scale.

Furthermore, I find it so funny that Trump comes out today in denial about knowing nothing about Wikileaks.

You can mark my words, if the truth gets exposed, you will see what an obvious piece of fiction this statement is on his behalf and as well as the statements made by Assange never having spoken to Trump or Putin.

May the truth get exposed…