A Different Side of Ted Bundy

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My Thoughts: Ted Bundy

When I watch the video of Ted Bundy, I am immediately struck at how his game is “on”. Bundy had an arsenal of tools that he used to fool people psychologically, and I am amazed at how many that he employs in the first eleven seconds of this video.

By Bundy’s behaviors, it is clear that he knew he could deceive anyone. Bundy understood human behavior and psychology at levels that far exceed most people, if you want my opinion, intuitively, and he knew how to turn the tables on people in seconds. He was wickedly manipulative.

Read moreWhile we all know that Bundy is guilty here, and we are all creeped out by the man in hindsight, I can assure you at the time when people first watched Bundy talk, he gave people serious doubts by his behaviors and actions. Bundy knew how to make people want to believe him. Add in his good looks and articulate speech, and it is no wonder he managed to get away with so many murders.

Bundy figured out that defensiveness is a sure sign of guilt, and what most people use as a gauge to detect truthfulness. He knew to avoid it at all costs. He also knew that if he appeared confident and self-assured, he’d gain more people’s trust.

Bundy also used distraction. He uses it here with chilling ease. He talks about how he stole a comic book when he was five years old. And even further, he knew that if he admitted to some wrongs, in a time of accusations, that people would think he was truthful and honest. But more than that, Bundy knew if he talked about something where he was guilty, if he displayed any guilty behaviors, people might attribute them back to the benign behavior, instead of the more serious one. After all, Bundy used in his calculations that it’s human nature to reject the people in front of us are capable of horrible things. It’s much easier to accept he stole a comic book and is honest, rather than believe he is lying and guilty of killing people. Most people are Pollyannas.

Bundy used multiple techniques in a matter of mere seconds to lure in his victims. It’s horrifyingly chilling in this video alone. The ease at which Bundy psychologically baits us is simply mind-blowing. In the first eleven seconds of this video, I count five psychological tools that Bundy used to fool people. That’s almost one every two seconds!! It’s no wonder Bundy was so successful at his crime.

When Bundy says, “I am not guilty of the allegations that have been filed against me”, it is fascinating to watch him. He is very articulate. Notice how he keeps his eyes locked on to the interviewer? He used this as a tool, too. Most people believed (and sadly still believe) that eye contact is a sign of honesty. But when Bundy says this, he shows doubt. He bites his lip. His confidence wanes, and if you are savvy, you would see not only this, but that his initial laughter was as a fake as a plastic cake!

Yet, when you stack up his leaks versus his luring techniques, he’s still ahead of the game.

Bundy goes on to say, “I don’t know all of what you are speaking about, Lucky, it’s too broad and I can’t get into it in any detail…” What is fascinating about this is, if he was innocent, what detail would there be to talk about?

Bundy employs psychological trickery, again, when he says, “No man is truly innocent…” and again when he stares intently, without loosing eye contact with the interviewer, when he says, “Nothing like the things you’re referring too.”

I find it chilling the way that Bundy laughs at how he is as likely to die in front of a firing squad as is the interivewer is of dying in a plane crash. Bundy says with an eerie grin, “Let’s hope you don’t.”

Bundy says he did not lie awake thinking about it (the charges against him, I suspect). He says, “Honest to god, not a moment.” I don’t believe him for an instant. Do you see the lip curl at the end? It’s an indication that what he said was a fib (It’s my husband’s classic clue to deception!).

Listen to what Bundy says here:

“I’ve been told the parents of these girls are fairly decent people… I don’t know, and I really feel for them because apparently these people suffered some incredible tragedy in their lives. The loss of a loved one is probably the most extreme kind of loss one could suffer in this life, and I say, I feel as much for them as anybody can.”

Bundy is trying to get people to accept him as compassionate and caring, but when you look at his words, they are very revealing. In his attempt to gain our trust, he actually rambles like a fool here. Bundy, I suspect, subconsciously minimizes what he is saying and doesn’t even realize it. Words can be so telling.

Notice how Bundy uses the word “apparently”? That word discredits the parents suffering, as if maybe the girls weren’t really murdered, as if he needs proof, and doesn’t believe this is so. Perhaps this was a subconscious form of distancing? It’s notably odd.

Then Bundy postulates that the loss of a loved one is “probably” the most “extreme” kind of loss there is. Why is he hedging with “probably” here, yet using the word extreme? Either he believes it or he doesn’t. These words identify Bundy is inconsistent. His subconscious, I suspect, is leaking out his real feelings.

He also uses the word “some incredible tragedy”. Why the word “some”? It’s as if he is saying “some tragedy”, but not the worst tragedy, isn’t it? Again, his words are minimizing things without him even realizing it. Then if you consider the use of the word “incredible”, one can immediately see he is inconsistent and immediately knows that he is B.S.-ing.

I also find it odd how he says he’s been told the parents of these girls are “fairly decent”? What normal person would even consider putting into question the decency of the parents? Why does he use “fairly” instead of just decent? I don’t think anyone told Bundy, “Hey, you know, these girls parents were fairly decent.” It’s ridiculous. I suspect this was another subconscious slip of the tongue. He wanted to say decent, but just couldn’t do it. I also like how he ends the sentence with, “I don’t know”.

Bundy was rambling in an attempt to gain support, and this last paragraph, if you ask me, backfired on him, but I am not sure if the average person would have picked up on his hedging. Most people don’t see the importance of what I coined “hedge words”, but they are very, very telling.

I certainly wouldn’t want to have met Ted Bundy. He could manipulate many people into believing they were holding an orange when it was really an apple, if you want my opinion.

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Here is an interesting video. What do you see when you watch Ted Bundy?

I see a master manipulator. Wow!!

The Fog of Emotions

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I have mentioned several times on my blog about how emotions can interfere with anyone’s ability to see the truth. If you are human, you are prone to this quagmire. I’ve written about it here and here.

I’ve always said that if I am emotionally involved in a situation, that is when my “lie-dar”, as I call it, jams up and becomes unreliable. Of course, that is nothing specific to me. It applies to every one of us.

Read moreIt is during these times, that I have become very aware to not trust myself. If I am emotional, I will defer judgement on just about anything until a later time when I feel I am in a logical frame of mind.

But what I didn’t know is that emotional turmoil can also impact our abilities longer term. Seven weeks ago, my life started on a roller coaster path, which has just recently subsided, and I am surprised at how it has affected me over these weeks, and it is still not yet resolved.

During the height of my emotions, naturally I couldn’t focus on things because I was distraught, but now that I have gotten myself back on track, I am still not able to see the truth with the clarity I once had. It’s like a flu, I suspect, and until I get myself back into a normal routine and find peace again, I am going to have be cautious.

I just never knew that our emotional well being could affect our judgment for such a duration of time. I understood minutes, hours and even days, but never weeks. This is the first upheaval in my life since I started blogging over four and a half years ago, and I am astounded at how it has impacted my clarity.

Where I used to be able to sit down and identify a truth teller in seconds to minutes, now I can’t. Sometimes I can’t do it for days. Other times, my clarity returns and I feel it is back, only to find the next day, it left again. It’s like a flu, that must run its course, and so I patiently wait.

I promise to only write when I have moments of clarity, but if I don’t respond to a request in a timely manner, you’ll know why–at least for the time being. My emotions aren’t settled back into place and they are still affecting my clarity. After all, I am human: Very human.

My Thoughts: Renee Ohlemacher’s 911 Call

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Here are my thoughts about Renee’s 911 call Read more

  1. I am immediately struck by the lack of fear in Renee’s voice when I first hear the 911 call. Renee’s voice is amazingly calm. It’s highly notable considering there was a supposed gunman in the house, who if she didn’t know, would have every reason to want to eliminate her, too. How could she be so confident he was gone if she was hiding in the closet?
  2. The first time Renee says “My parents were shot” definitively. The second time she adds in “I think my parents were shot”. Why did Renee have a change of heart? Why one minute was she definite and the second she wasn’t? It’s inconsistent. If she was truly afraid and believed someone killed her parents, there would be no doubt whatsoever.
  3. I am really taken back by the fact Renee doesn’t start begging and pleading for an ambulance to come and help her parents. She never even asks for an ambulance. It’s like she is resigned to the fact they are dead. Most people in a tragic situation like this cling to hope. Renee doesn’t. This is highly notable and unusual.
  4. Renee’s voice tone is timid. Timid doesn’t fit this scenario. Renee should be feeling fear, stress, worry, concern or panic, but I don’t hear any of those emotions in the earlier parts of the phone call — normal emotions we would expect to here in a scenario like this.
  5. I’m amazed at how Renee doesn’t have any fear the gunman will hear her and take her out. Why does she feel so safe? It makes her statement that she is hiding in the closet because she is afraid inconsistent. If she had true fear, it would manifest itself in a desire to hide, which would cause her to be afraid to speak. It would also show up in her voice as well, but it doesn’t. This is a notable red flag.
  6. I find it really odd how Renee says, “I’m sorry I’m so scared.” This is fascinating because it appears Renee is more concerned with her emotions than she is concerned about her parents getting help or their well being! If you were deathly afraid, would you apologize for it? Have you ever apologized to people when you’ve been very afraid of a serious threat? It’s very unusual and abnormal behavior, unless Renee is afraid about being caught. Then it would add up, wouldn’t it?
  7. Notice how Renee never asks for an ambulance or shows urgency to try to save her parents? She finally says, “Are they coming?” notably slow. It’s another red flag.
  8. When Renee said again, “I’m so scared” I believe that was a true statement. She is worried about how she will be perceived in this whole scenario. She certainly isn’t worried about her parents though–the true victims of this scenario. It’s all about “Renee”.
  9. When the dispatcher asks Renee, “Do you hear anything yet?” with regards to the police and ambulance coming, it’s interesting how Renee responds. She says, “I just heard my mom scream really loud.” Renee isn’t focused on the ambulance coming and getting them help. She is more interested in conveying what she heard earlier. Isn’t’ that odd? Renee then goes into talking about how she heard her dad, too. Most people, when loved ones are clinging to life or could be gravely injured, hang on to getting help at all costs first and foremost. For Renee, this desire seems totally absent, over and over again.
  10. Listen to how emotional Renee is when she says, “They probably shot my dog, too.” There is no stress in her voice whatsoever. Is that how you would feel in a situation like this? Most people would be highly emotional. Renee, again, is the exception.
  11. It’s interesting that Renee doesn’t talk about the dog barking at all. Wouldn’t you have expected the dog to bark if a stranger entered the house (if he wasn’t normally locked up)?
  12. When the dispatcher asks who might have done this, Renee’s tone of voice is off to me when she says, “I don’t know. I really don’t know”. I would expect her to say it with certainty, but she doesn’t.
  13. I find it interesting that Renee inquires when the “cops” will get there, instead of the ambulance. She seems to have no interest in an ambulance at all, like she can’t even say the word. It’s very strange. Did she know her parents were dead at this point already? You can’t help but wonder.

  14. When the dispatcher asks Renee to go to the front door, Renee says, “I’ll try”. I would expect her fear to be at its highest here. How does she know she won’t run into someone lying in wait for her? Oddly, Renee’s voice gives no indication of stress here. It’s notable.
  15. Notice when Renee says, “I just saw my parents ma’am.” There is no shock or horror in her voice. She doesn’t seem to flee either. It’s haunting! Most people who would see their parents shot would fall apart, run away or scream in pain. Not Renee. Why? Why is she so cold and callous about her parents and concerned only about herself?
  16. Listen how her sadness is gone when she says, “Their shot. Their shot.” She obviously had no problem looking at them, and seeing if they were shot. Notice she doesn’t check or see if they have pulse or ask how to do CPR. She takes no measure whatsoever to try to help them, does she? The rate of her speech picks up, which suggests excitement. Notice there are no tears, fear, or emotions at this point? They are eerily missing.
  17. When the dispatcher tells Renee to go to the front door, listen to how she says, “Okay” There is a palpable air of excitement in her voice again and a lack of tears, shock, surprise, fear or disbelief.

It’s the emotions that Renee doesn’t display that concern me the most here. Our emotions are true indicators of how we really feel and Renee doesn’t seem to feel any shock, disbelief, worry or concern for her parents well being. With that, you can’t help but wonder if she really did want them dead and perhaps took part in ultimately ending their lives.