Poll: Drew Peterson

UPDATE April 13th 11:20 am:
With the overwhelming response for the Drew Peterson interview, I will share my thoughts soon. I would have normally written up a post by now, but my dog is sick, and I am too worried about her to focus. Please be patient with me.

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Drew Peterson is scheduled to be on Larry King Live tonight. The show is taking questions from viewers now.

A reader has asked me to share my thoughts on this interview. I normally wouldn’t have taken interest in this because I’ve shared my beliefs about Drew Peterson, but sometimes my readers surprise me wanting more than one critique of people. So with that, I ask you:


Randy Pausch Thoughts

Randy Pausch was featured in a prime time special last night on ABC. Did you see it?

If you don’t know Randy Pausch, he is someone worth getting to know. If you do already know who he is than you know one of the most amazing people of our time, and you don’t need me to tell you that!

Last night on the show, Randy said if he had to give one piece of advice to anyone, it would be:

Tell the Truth

If I had to give them a second piece of advice, it would be:

All the Time

I thought that this was really special because Randy has shared so much in the way of wonderful advice in his famous Last Lecture, and for these two things to rank so high was amazing to me.

To see and learn more about Randy, click here. At the bottom of the link you will find more links to Randy’s Last Lecture — well worth listening to. You can also read Randy’s online diary here.

Randy’s outlook on life just amazes me. His power, strength, endurance and hope for tomorrow are so inspirational.

Fishy Experience

I found a light for my bathroom a few months back that I liked, but I decided foolishly to wait before purchasing it until we were ready to install it. No need for it to just lay around. You would guess they discontinued it in December.

Considering that December was only a handful of months ago, I decided to see if I could find one online in an off-beat location, or warehouse sitting on shelf. There has to be one, but can I find it?

I am hopeful.

Read moreI spent an hour yesterday calling around, and visiting websites. I called numerous places, but everyone was sold out. I didn’t give up. I know there are some sitting in warehouses somewhere!

Then I found a website that I had run across before using a different search string, and they said they had it in stock! They said on their website they keep all items in stock, and the item would ship in 24-48 hours. But before I got excited, I decided to call them.

They just didn’t have a number listed anywhere where I could reach them at so I emailed them and waited for a response.

It’s not good that they don’t have a phone number. It’s a red flag, but I reasoned in my desire and longing for this light that maybe this is a home run business, and they don’t want calls at all hours of the day. Maybe this business buys discontinued items–that’s why they had them in stock. At least that is what I told myself.

Damn emotions!

So today thinking about the light again and not hearing back from them, I went to the website, and I decided oh-what-the-heck, I’ll just order it and see. If they don’t have it, they won’t charge me. It won’t be the first time this has happened without a hitch.

So I put the light in the online cart, and it asked me to create a new customer account. So I did. That’s when I saw on the registration page my second red flag.

It wanted a shipping address. It read as follows:

Street Address:
Suburb:
Post Code:
City:
State/Province:
Country:

What?

We don’t enter our address in this format in the U.S. Clearly, this is now hinting to be a company overseas acting as if they are an American company. Yet, when you pulled down country option, there was only one selection for the United States, and they had an American fax number.

Hmmm…

It was fishy.

Then below that, it showed shipping charges of $69.00 labeled as “Best Way”. There was no other explanation for shipping provided. I was looking at small vanity light. Clearly, the shipping charge was insane.

I knew I was being had, and now they already had my real name and e-mail address. I am a bit unnerved. I went back in to see if I could modify my account, and I could so I added in all bogus information deleting anything personal I could find. How scary!

I then went to check out who owns the IP address, and while they give a Wilmington, Delaware address, and have an American contact whose name is foreign, they write their phone number like this:

+1 1232342123

That’s how they do it overseas. Bah!

Clearly, my emotions and desires were leading me astray. I wanted that damn light, and I was overruling important messages. I wasn’t listening to the signals I was getting when clearly I should have! I am so happy I never gave any credit card information.

Emotions are our biggest derailment to seeing the truth for what it is.

And now, two hours later, I found the light in-stock in a store 30 miles from me. How about that? I did it. Safely. Whew!

Keep those emotions for desires and wants in check, or you are bound to have regrets sooner or later. I think I came close to having my own regrets today!

Dentist Update

I spoke to my dad this weekend about his crown to find out what happened. He went back to the dentist to get his crown cemented in late last week for the second time. I was curious to know how it all went.

My dad told me after the assistant seated him, and just after the doctor greeted him, he said to the doctor that he did some reading on the web, and saw on Wikipedia that gold crowns were on average 20% less than porcelain crowns. My dad asked why he did not get a reduction in price (when the doctor at the ninth hour had changed the order from porcelain to gold)?

Read moreThe dentist said did you come here today to chew the price down? Is that your goal?

My dad politely said no. I want you to do what you think is fair. I’ll leave that decision up to you on how you want to handle this.

My dad said the dentist immediately said he was going to have that information on Wikipedia removed at once, and that if my dad didn’t trust him to make the appropriate choices for him as a professional then he wasn’t interested to do business with my dad.

My dad immediately pipped up and said that it wasn’t that he didn’t trust him because he had. My dad reminded the dentist of a recent referral my dad had sent to him–a woman who was getting three crowns, and who was also in the middle of her procedure a few weeks behind my dad. My dad said “If I didn’t trust you, I would have never sent you a recommendation.”

The doctor retorted back in an angry voice, “I don’t pay for my recommendations.”

My dad saw things were going well. The dentist was mad, indignant and simply wanted my dad to go away. The dentist left the room and said he had an emergency, but that he would be back.

My dad guesses that the dentist went to check out Wikipedia. He then came back, cemented in my dad’s crown, and told him never to come back.

My dad asked him if he was sure he wanted to do this , and the dentist angrily said yes!

My dad then walked out to pay his bill not knowing what he’d find. He was shocked. There was an additional $200 bill waiting for him–on top of the full price they had agreed upon originally. It was a $200 charge to cement in the crown! Can you believe it? I used to work in a dental office and this is beyond outrageous.

During the last visit, my dad specifically asked if there were any additional charges if they switched to the gold crown from the full priced they had agreed upon, and the dentist said no. Worse, my dad endured extra drilling and pain because of this man’s oversight, or mistake, and now this dentist wanted to charge him more on top of that!

As my dad looked closer, it said “Fee waived”.

Clearly, this dentist thought my dad was an easy take, or at least he had thought that before my dad spoke up. I suspect when the dentist left the room, he went to check out Wikipedia, and then went and corrected his outrageous billing tactics. He should have pulled it, but instead came into the room when my dad was paying his bill, and said I am not charging you for cementing the crown. Instead, I will write off as a loss!

What nonsense. Did he think my dad would think he was honorable? He is an absolute crook!

He not only was dishonest with my dad the first time when his work was rejected by the lab –now he wanted to over-charge my dad on top of it!

This only makes me wonder how often he gets away with this. He is quite arrogant in the face of questionable practices.

When my dad looked at the remaining bill he was prepared to pay, the dentist had reduced the total due by 10%. I guess that was his way of conceding there were valid complaints.

He never provided my dad any explanations, and Wikipedia nearly five days later still shows the cost of a gold crown is on average 20% less than a porcelain crown. He never got that removed. I wonder why?

When money changes hands, I can’t say it enough–be careful. An honest professional should always be willing to explain things if they don’t make sense to you. That’s part of their job as a professional.

Mechele Linehan: Sentenced

Mechele Linehan was sentenced yesterday to 99 years in prison.

I wrote about Mechele a few weeks back here.