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Microexpressions — Test Yourself


A micro expression of fear

A microexpression is a flash of emotion that tells what you are really feeling. For instance, if you ask someone how they are feeling and they reply they are doing great, when let’s say they are dying inside, people who can see microexpressions will potentially see a flash of pain or fear or sadness, regardless of what this person is actually saying.

In essence, your face has a natural lie detector built right in, which may indicate that you are being deceptive. And guess what, no matter how hard you try, you can’t fake it out or stop your true expressions from flashing themselves. They are involuntary.

Isn’t that wild?

But it is important to know that not all situations cause people to flash microexpressions. It’s just one piece of the detection puzzle.

Microexpressions may appear in the middle of a fake expression for an instant or a flash.

Even more interesting is that when you make a fake smile, you don’t use the same muscles you use when you genuinely smile. Isn’t that bizarre? The muscles you use for a fake smile are completely different. If I ask you to genuinely smile for me when you are not happy, guess what, you can’t do it. The smile will not be the same.

I find that fascinating!!

Before I knew microexpressions existed, I never noticed them (consciously, I suspect). Then once I heard about them, I suddenly noticed them all the time, as if someone turned the lights on. I’ll never forget the first one I was conscious about: I saw Scott Peterson flash an excited microexpression to Barbara Walters when she asked him a question. Instead of answering the question excitedly, he played the sad, downer-guy denying her the truth. It was clear as day what his true feelings were, and they didn’t match what he had just said and the expressed emotion on his face. He couldn’t hide them–just most people didn’t see it.

I believe I have always seen microexpressions and registered them, but I wasn’t consciously aware of them. I think for years, I have innately processed this information in my subconscious mind without ever being consciously aware of how I knew what I knew. I just knew it. (Finally, my world is making sense!!!)

In an odd twist, just because someone tells you microexpressions exist doesn’t mean you will see them like I do. I think in real life only handful of people out of 100 actually see microexpressions without training. Most people are oblivious to them. It’s not a common trait most people possess: the ability to see microexpressions.

When I saw the Scott Peterson microexpression, I asked my husband to see if he saw it. He missed it. Since that time, I have taped shows and I rewind them and repeatedly replay microexpressions to my husband and no matter what I do, he doesn’t see them.  For some people to see them, you must slow them down.

So, do you want to test your ability to work with and identify microexpressions?

I’ll warn you: This test is difficult. I believe it was difficult because all other verbal clues and hints from the face and body are stripped away. You have to solely rely on the face to do this test — and that is challenging. I am used to processing lots of clues and not just focusing in on one. Yet I think I scored 6 out of 10 on this test (I was too busy taking it and I didn’t keep score but I think I remember missing 4).

See how you can do… Good luck!
Facial Expressions Test

Update 2-11-2008:
I would say the microexpressions that I see consciously assist me in deception detection about 8-10% of the time. I wonder if I register a lot more subconsciously.

Update 3-25-2008:
See a new poll taken by my readers. It asks them what they think are the biggest clues to deception for me. Here is what I think are my biggest clues.

Book and Article Suggestion

A new reader to my blog posted an interesting comment suggesting a book and an article. I thought you might want to read it:

Here is his comment:

Malcolm Gladwell’s book, Blink, might be of interest to you.
He wrote a piece in the New Yorker called “The Naked Face” about people who might just be like you.


Here’s the URL to the article:
http://www.gladwell.com/2002/2002_08_05_a_face.htm

Check it out.
-Steve


Thanks Steve!

I found article very interesting — and I find the book, Blink, facinating! I can’t wait to read it. All of the sudden, since October, I am finally finding people who understand me. It’s so awesome, and exciting. I have always trusted what I called my intuition, but Malcolm Gladwell puts it so much better when he calls it “rapid cognition”. I knew I wasn’t acting on a whim or an emotion but something more concrete because when I rely on those instanteous reactions, they are nearly foolproof.

How exciting!

Anne Bird, a Very Calculating Sister

Anne Bird, Scott Peterson’s half-sister, is on the circuit, making the rounds, selling her story that she believes Scott Peterson is guilty. I tuned into Dateline NBC last night to watch her and sadly, I was disturbed by what I saw.

She doesn’t act normal. You can’t distinguish normal emotional responses from her. You can’t easily discern when she is supposedly hurt or upset versus when she is happy. She is like a doll without emotions, babbling and saying what she thinks she is supposed to say—only adding appropriate smiles or a twinge when she thinks she should—not because she is actually feeling that way. It is clear that her emotional responses aren’t genuine.

Her behavior is oddly similar to that of her half-brother Scott, although Scott Peterson mastered putting on the emotions more, so as to fool the average person. Scott said and acted the part he believed society expected of him, and he did his true dirty deeds behind the scenes. It really makes you wonder…

We all know that Scott was raised by Anne’s biological mother and was supposedly taught to shun real emotions, according to Jackie herselfbut Anne Bird was raised by an entirely different family. Why is she shunning normal emotions? It’s rather scary.

Anne tries to convince you, the audience, that she is writing this book because she wasn’t asked to testify at her brother’s trialand so now she believes the burden is too heavy on her conscience to keep it all inside. I believe she even says she feels she had no other choice but to tell her story.

During the trial, Anne stood steadfast by her half-brother. She says she thought he was innocent. But now she thinks he is guilty, as is obvious by her book title: 33 Reasons Why My Brother is Guilty.

Regardless of what she thought during and after the trial, it isn’t like the jury freed Scott Peterson, so why does she have to tell the world why she believes he is guilty?? They convicted him. So where does her guilt come in? She only had supporting evidence to the story. Her reasoning is flawed. Very flawed.

The real reason I believe Anne is writing this book? (A) She wants to get back at her mother. She has deep anger that she was given up for adoption, that her mom called Scott the “Golden Child”. This is her form of revenge: a very hurtful book for her biological mother. (B) She wants notoriety. (C) She wants the money from the book. (D) This is all about Anne, and Anne alone.

Anne is very calculating.

Anne also tries to convince you that she never doubted Scott’s innocence during the trialthat she completely trusted him regardless of incredible mounting evidenceand she saw way more than you and I did behind the scenes, which is supposedly written in her book. If you ask me, Anne knew damn well her half-brother was guilty long before she admits it.

Jackie Peterson, who gave Anne up at birth, has led a very tragic life. As told by NBC’s Dateline, Jackie “…had suffered a terrible childhood. Her father was murdered when she was just two years old—murdered just before Christmas. Then Jackie’s mother suffered a breakdown. Jackie grew up in an orphanage.”

Now add to that, Jackie gave up two children for adoption. And worse, as we all know, her flesh and blood killed someone. How much can one person handle? Wouldn’t a normal person have some form of compassion for her??

When you watch Anne talk, and you hear her divulge things about her mother that are painful, her face remains strangely emotionless, despite the fact she is saying very hurtful things. This is just another big red flag that things aren’t as they seem.

As a lie-detector, Anne’s behavior scares me. She is too emotionless to get a good read from her expressions. She is too calculated. I can only tell you that her behaviors don’t add up, that her expressions aren’t genuineand realand with that, I know enough to be very concerned with anything she says.

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Did you know according to forensic psychiatrist Dr. Keith Ablow, who was featured on Oprah, that 1 in 25 people show sociopathic (non-empathic) tendencies?? I believe this is absolutely true.

However, Dr. Ablow went on to say that he thinks people are born good, and through deep struggle, stop empathizing. Then he says in time, they look at people suffering with bewilderment and curiosity.

I couldn’t disagree more. You can’t teach ityou just can’t. The normal person can’t turn it off. It’s not possible, no matter how hard you tryhence the reason why a lot of people pull the plug on life. You either have empathy or you don’t but if psychiatry admitted it, they’d loose a lot of business, wouldn’t they????

Quote of the Day

“The cruelest lies are often told in silence.”

Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894) Scottish novelist, essayist & poet