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Oksana Grigorieva

45789, LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - Wednesday October 6, 2010. Oksana Grigorieva braves the rain as she arrives at an office building in Culver City. Oksana's troubles have continue as she has recently cut ties with her bodyguard Kristian Otto Herzog after she found out that he is an ex-felon. Photograph: Juan Sharma,  PacificCoastNews.com

Oksana Grigorieva spoke out to People Magazine about her problems with Mel Gibson. She talks about how Mel came after her, threatened her and pulled a gun on her, and then threatened to kill himself.

Do you think she is telling the truth?

Read moreI don’t think it takes any rocket science to know that Mel Gibson has a temper. We’ve all heard it for ourselves in the past few months, which makes the likelihood that something could have happened higher than usual.

Is he capable of pulling a gun out and threatening Oksana? Absolutely. The rage we heard in his voice is pretty predictive of his lack of emotional control.

Do I believe something happened on January 6? I do.

Oksana appears to show genuine sadness over the event, but I don’t see fear, which is odd.

I also find it odd how she talks about the gun that day. She says, “And then he pulls a gun out.” Notice how she shrugs her shoulders. That’s not a conclusive hot spot for me (alone as honest people do this), but it is noteworthy. Then she hedges when she says, “And he, you know, he pulls a gun out basically, and he wants to kill us all.”

Basically? He either did or he did not. Why is she minimizing this? This flags me. She also doesn’t speak in past tense when talking about this. She says it in present with the words “wants” instead of wanted.

She continues, and says, “And then he says (shoulder shrug) if I leave then…he’s going to…um…..blow his brains out on the wall (shrug). There was no logic in what he was saying.” When she says this, I see that she is a bit indignant. I suspect he did say said this at one point or another. Did he say it that night? I don’t know.

At the end when she talks about him beating her up when she was holding the baby in her arms, she definitely was concerned for her children. I have no doubt about that, but I’d like to question Oksana about the gun incident. I’m not convinced, but I can’t rule it out at this point. I’d need to see more. Most people who someone pulled a gun on them would be terrified–especially if they were holding their children, as Oksana says.

According to People Magazine, the L.A. Sherrif is investigating Oksana to see if she used the audio tapes to extort Gibson.

Mel Gibson’s Audio Tapes

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An expert on the Today show analyzed the audio tapes of Mel Gibson and his ex-girlfriend, Oksana Grigorieva, to see if they were in any way doctored, and he does not agree with Gibson’s attorney, that these tapes are doctored. He believes they are authentic. It will be interesting to watch this all play out.

Clearly, Mel Gibson, in these audio tapes in ranting like an insane lunatic. He has serious anger issues, absolutely no respect for himself or his ex at this point, which no one can mistake. He is likely dangerous to be around in this state of mind, and any threats he makes should be taken seriously. He has lost control. Anyone can see this. The tone of Gibson’s voice is enough to cause anyone alarm.

When Grigorieva says to Mel, “What kind of man is that? Hitting a woman when she is holding a child in her hands? Breaking her teeth twice in the face. What kind of man is that?” and Mel doesn’t respond with denial, it supports Grigorieva here. Gibson says instead, “Oh, you’re all angry now… You F****** deserved it.” By that response, Gibson is confirming his outrageous behavior, sadly. He tells us what the truth is. If this was a lie, he would have responded differently.

Gibson does say that Grigorieva knows how to push his buttons, and I absolutely believe both of these two pushed each others buttons or things would have never escalated like they did. That’s what causes a relationship melt down like this and once a relationship hits this level, it can never be repaired. It’s permanent and irrevocably destroyed. I shudder when people who reach these levels attempt to rebuild their relationship. It will never, ever happen. If only people would realize this.

I find Gibson’s behavior sick and disturbing as I am sure everyone else does. He needs help!