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Mind-bending Thoughts

August 21, 2015/in Uncategorized/by Eyes for Lies

Incredible scenery on the road in Banff National Park

Every now and then in life we connect up with someone who causes us to stop and pause.

They cause us to THINK.  Deeply. 

When the words first hit you, you sit and ponder.  You look around.  Things suddenly feel different.  You sense this is not the usual conversation.

Perhaps it is that they ponder questions that you too have mulled around, but never shared with another soul.  Or they provoke and stir thoughts that you never dared to consider.

And it shakes you.

To the core.

Sometimes these interactions cause a blurred lens to come into focus on something you are passionate about, or something you didn’t see or perhaps forgot about.

And these discoveries ignite you, and renew your passion. They fill your sails.

That’s what recently happened to me.

I reconnected with a friend I made several years ago, and his passion and enthusiasm for life has just breathed excitement back into mine and awoke some of my own feelings within. We share a joy of living and we are both people who are willing to take risks, and walk off the “expected path” of life to live! We share a bond on that.

David decided to question his life and challenge himself to live his most authentic life, and his adventure is just inspiring! And he is writing a blog about his journey.

I couldn’t give any higher recommendation than to say this is a must read for all people.

David is incredibly intelligent, smart, creative and talented, and he is so beautifully articulate, you can’t miss a blog post of his, because he’ll challenge you to think outside of the box.

And we all need this challenge in life–to think beyond what we know and understand, and to question if there more to this life than doing what is given, or expected.

Are you living your life to the fullest?

Check out one of my favorite posts by David here and he will help you answer that question.  Then if you enjoy it, read the rest of his blog.  It won’t disappoint, I promise you! It’s phenomenal on so many levels.

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Have you heard of Personal Intelligence?

July 30, 2015/3 Comments/in Uncategorized/by Eyes for Lies

Brain stem

“Personal intelligence is defined as:  “the capacity to reason about personality and to use personality and personal information to enhance one’s thoughts, plans, and life experience.” (Mayer, 2008, p. 209)”

I find this utterly fascinating because I practice this in my life daily!  Understanding personalities, through the use of emotions, behavior, demeanor, words spoken, etc., is a key factor in every interaction in my life!

Someone has put words to it!

Check this out:

Does Personal Intelligence Exist? Evidence From a New
Ability-Based Measure

 

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Are you privileged?

July 22, 2015/29 Comments/in Uncategorized/by Eyes for Lies

When you ask most people if they grew up privileged, I think most people of us will say no.

We all imagine the privileged to be the super wealthy–the types of people who have maids, drivers, chefs, planes, fancy cars and mansions.

But the reality is many of us are more privileged than we realize. And some of us have had to work twice as hard to overcome the lack of privileges that others took for granted.

Have you ever thought about it?

Privilege is not something you earned. It was given to you. 

What if you didn’t have the privileges you had or have?  Where would you be life?  Would you be in the same place?  And have the same successes? Would you be just as happy?

Imagine if the privileges you value now were taken from you. They were gone. You no longer felt safe in your expression, to get help or medical care.  How would you feel?

There is likely someone in your life right now who is in those shoes.  Have you ever thought about how it would make you feel?  And how they must feel?

Does this experiment open your eyes and change how you might look at other people?

I think it is profound exercise that evokes strong emotions.  I hope it stirs yours…

 

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Truth or Lie: What would you do?

July 16, 2015/17 Comments/in Uncategorized/by Eyes for Lies

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If you have a friend who is very despondent about something bleak in their lives (i.e. relative given high-probability-of-death diagnosis, cheating spouse suspected, etc), and they came to you and asked for your support, what would you do: Would you help them cope with the truth and be factual that things are likely not going to end well to help them cope and prepare in a realistic light, or would you lie and comfort them with positive thoughts that “everything will be okay” even though you know negative change is very likely going to affect them?

Think hard about this. What would you really do.

Feel free to vote below and share comments in the comment section.

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11 Years of Blogging Brings Changes

July 6, 2015/20 Comments/in Uncategorized/by Eyes for Lies

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Did you know that I have been blogging for 11 years this October? It’s true! I’ve been sharing my thoughts on public cases and on people in the media for well over a decade!

My blog averages between 30,000 and 60,000 readers a month (depending on the season and news stories available to comment on).

While I have thoroughly enjoyed writing this blog, I have made a decision. I will no longer be evaluating people or cases in the media going forward. I am available for hire should you have a need for my services.

While many of you know that I travel the country training law enforcement from coast to coast, you may not know that I have also been quietly consulting on cases as well.  I have had a profound effect on people’s lives consulting on cases, and I want to do more of it.

I will, however, still keep the blog going from time-to-time. I will share articles of interest related to the topics of human behavior, deception, emotions, emotional intelligence, facial expressions, and personality identification at zero acquaintance.  You are welcome to submit articles by clicking on my Suggest A Topic link (to the right).

Thanks for sharing this journey with me and I hope you stick around!  You will get updates about my future plans here as well.  I am considering offering public classes in the future, and as I have said before, I am still considering writing a book–so check back here for the latest. While things are changing, it’s certainly not an end.

 

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Renee Ellory has written this blog since 2006, dedicating her free time to help others understand people. By sharing her insights on human behavior, deception and the truth.

Many people have shared with Renee their personal stories of how her insight has greatly affected their lives. It definitely motivates Renee to continue to dedicate her time when she is available.

Renee tracked her accuracy publicly for 7.5 years, and was 95% accurate, whereas the average person is 54% accurate. She didn’t miss a case for five years sharing her thoughts before the truth was known! She is a scientifically tested and studied expert.

While she doesn’t track her cases anymore due to limited time, she still shares her opinions with the public when time allows.

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