Confession of an Admitted Liar

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A reader left an interesting comment yesterday on my blog post titled Pathological Liars. I thought I would share it with you.

I will be comlpetely honest (for once). I am a liar. A Pathological liar.Some of you out there asume that we are scum and that we are evil, and that is a little too harsh to say. You must understand, when it says we have no morals…WE CANT. I really do wish that I could feel guilt, so that I might stop lying so much. I don’t. I never have felt guilty for anything that I have done, I dont think that I ever will.Read more

Apperently, some people have it so bad that they don’t feel other emotions as well. Which makes since, saying that me and my friend (yet another liar, there are a lot of us you know) did not cry at our friend’s funeral. We lack the emotions for us to properly restrain ourselves from lying to ones we love. Emotionally though, we can feel pain. Don’t think that there are some pathological liars out there that feel horrible when they hear the comments that you are writing about them. (I for one think that its funny, and i dont really care) And yes, I belive that I will probably burn in hell for this. But until then, I shall be smiling my evil little grin and crying my fake tears…lying my way easily through life. You think that it is a bad thing to be a liar. I find it wonderful. Things are so easy for me. I manipulate people to think certain things of me, others, and situations. It has been 10 years in this town, no one has ever guessed that I am lying. (most pathological liars have good enough memories to remember what they told to whom) And Honestly, I hope that there are not too many people like me. I am sinful, mean, cold hearted, maybe even souless, and I dont care at all. (I have tried therapy, but i ended up lying to the therapist…so yeah that didnt work out too well). Signed, Liar Liar

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Cool Facial Expression Tool

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Here is a cool facial expression tool that Chris, a reader here at Eyes for Lies, pointed out to me today that he and I think you will enjoy. Thanks, Chris!

My Sweet Pea

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Click on an image to see it larger. Doesn’t she make you smile?

My Lulu…


Lucy

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September 1, 1992 – June 1, 2009

I will miss you more than words could ever express.
The hole in my life without you is incomprehensible …

The Lure of Vulnerability

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In this video, Gary Ridgeway, a serial killer, talks about the lures he used to get his victims. What Ridgeway tells us is that whatever a person’s vulnerability was, he exploited it to gain people’s trust. He lied as a ruse to fulfill his needs.

Hence, it is a logical assumption that people who are needy are more likely to believe other people’s lies than those who aren’t. Emotions, in times of need, do make us all vulnerable and it is wise to be conscious of this, specifically when we are needy.

Read moreI am always very wary of a stranger who show care or concern about something in my life that wouldn’t provoke an emotional response in most people. I know people don’t build bonds in quickly and when people try, it’s a big red flag for me to back away–that something is likely off. It’s much like a love interests who confess to loving you within days–it’s a big sign to run for the hills!

Of course, kindness and generosity do exist, so it is a delicate balance, but it is always safer to err on the side of caution when it comes to strangers. Good people will usually understand your hesitation, and if they don’t, I certainly don’t make it my worry. To worry is precisely what titillates people like Ridgeway.