Fascinating Night on the Bachelorette: Greg Grippo and Katie Thurston

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Last night on the Bachelorette, it was stunning to see a suitor clearly read his love interest with amazing clarity as she leaked her true feelings. Believe it or not, but most people when falling in love, especially in a fantasy scenario such as The Bachelorette, struggle to see the truth before their eyes. It’s so exceptionally rare, I was in awe at Greg Grippo and his ability to read bachelorette Katie Thurston’s in the minute-by-minute interactions last night.

His clarity stands out in the history of the Bachelor and Bachelorette, if you want my opinion.

Greg showed incredible emotional intelligence to manage his own feelings of desire while reading the rejection he was receiving from Kaite as it happened. And to handle it with such grace, just wow!

Most people are blinded by their desires to see the clues before them that their relationship is in trouble. Greg was like a laser. It was amazing!

Katie truly liked Greg. There are no two doubts about it, and she was blindsided by him as well. It was so hard to watch!

I suspect Katie couldn’t grasp what was going on. I think if we were to ask her what she was thinking, she would says that Greg was telling her in one interaction it was over because she didn’t say I love you to him. For her, to have him turn so quickly on a dime, unnerved her to the core. How could he do that if he truly cared about her?

She then, in turn, doubted her ability to read and understand everyone at that point. How could he do this to her? You can certainly understand that!

As I understand Greg’s response as well.

What Katie failed to see what her response was very clear. While she liked Greg–even a lot –possibly even falling in love with him, she didn’t have the response you would expect from someone who is choosing YOU to be her final suitor. She clearly had not and Greg picked up on it!

She didn’t have to utter a word. She simply had to show her pleased affection to him to reassure him, which she completely failed to do.

When the man you truly love confesses his love to you — you can’t help but glow and light up. Katie didn’t and Greg saw it. She remained guarded and emotionally detached. And she while her behaviors didn’t support that she chose Greg with certainty, her emotions were affected by what I suspect was Botox!

Which made it all the more crazy!

I think Katie has had Botox and it has frozen her eyebrows. And add to the fact that Greg is laser good at reading people, and when Katie cried, it looked fake! It really did but IT WASN’T FAKE. The Botox locked her face which complicated everything further. She without knowing it destroyed his ability to connect with her due to a wrinkle injection!

Like ouch!!

Botox can also stunt the emotions one is feeling as well. Talk about a nightmare!

It was like she poisoned herself to any true connection with Greg literally! I can’t help but wonder if she showed real sadness in her face and wasn’t frozen from Botox, would he have sensed it and softened? It’s possible.

I think for Katie, she has been torn between Greg and Blake for a while now, and was down to making her final decisions. I suspect she leaned slightly towards Blake at times and other times towards Greg. And when Greg confessed his love, I think what happened to Katie is she saw how hard rejecting him at the final rose ceremony could be and it scared her. It caused her to freeze. She didn’t want to hurt anyone.

All of this combined, she may have even second guessed everything, and found herself in an emotionally dizzying scenario, where she, too, couldn’t get on her feet.

It was a mind-blowing episode, frankly!

Summer Wells Parents Speak Out

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Summer Wells mom, Candus Bly, spoke out for the first time since her 5-year old daughter disappeared on June 15th –two weeks ago.

The first thing I want to ask her is why haven’t you spoken out before now?

Granted, I know her father has, but why hasn’t she? What took her two weeks?

You might wonder if it was because she was overwhelmed emotionally that she couldn’t, right? I could give her that. But to support that (if that is the case, I am suppositioning now), I would expect to see her expressing those emotions now, and we don’t!

It’s highly notable how flat-lined and unemotional both parents are! They are so relaxed and unstressed, I’m stunned actually! Are they on meds? Are there any meds that would knock out all emotions?

I am also shocked that there is no urgency, no pleas for her daughter’s return or asking people to help. They don’t seem to have any stress or worry this is an URGENT concern, do they?

They don’t do anything to help other people recognize her or bring her back either. They don’t describe what she was last wearing or anything. It’s mind blowing!

You’d think they were talking about a family picnic they had–not their missing 5-year old daughter!

Instead, they seem resigned and accepting that someone took her and there is nothing that can be done. This is not normal.

They should be holding up flyers, photos and keeping her face in the news! They should feel this is an urgent matter. They should be stressed, worried, concerned or sad — give me any negative emotion of loss! They don’t. It’s highly concerning.

Furthermore, Candus is telling us that her daughter was only out of her sight for a few minutes, right? So how far could the little girl have gone?

“…[Summer] wanted to go back over and see her brothers, and I said, ‘OK,’ and I walked her all the way over to the porch, and I watched her walking into the kitchen where the boys were watching TV. I told the boys, I said, ‘Watch Summer; I’ll be back.’ And within two minutes, I came back, and I asked the boys where their sister was, and they said, ‘She went downstairs, Mom, to play with her toys in the playroom.’ I said, ‘OK.’ And I yelled downstairs for her a couple times, and I didn’t get no answer, which was unusual because usually she always answers me. And so, I went down there to check, and she was nowhere in sight” (source).

So within what appears to be maybe 5 minutes, this little 5-year old disappear off the face of the earth and they couldn’t find her.

If you look at a map of their address, the child home is on a pretty secluded property where it would take her more than a few minutes to make it to the busy road.

More unusual is that both parents seem to believe they know what happened to their daughter, which doesn’t bode well to me. Most parents of a missing child do not want to make guesses about what happened to their child because they want EVERY avenue explored.

These parents are set on someone taking or luring their child, which seems very unlikely.

The odds of a stranger luring her is extremely low given the nature of their property, the distance from the road, the fact it is daylight, the short time frame the mom describes Summer being alone, the fact there was a dog in photos who I suspect lives at the property who would likely alert to a predator, and the fact a 5-year old isn’t talking online in forums to get someone to “lure” her from home as a teenager might be.

The odds are extremely low someone would (a) hang out in the bushes just hoping for the right time during the daylight, (b) see people active and about, and assume they could get her alone.

I’m not buying that theory at all and why are the parents?

When I see the creek in the back yard, as a adult with a missing 5-year old, I would worry about that first and foremost. Did she fall into the creek? Do they ever talk about it? Worry about it?

The father talks in one video about bears in the area, but they didn’t worry about the bears either? They only assumed a stranger kidnapped her in broad daylight while they were home. It defies logic.

Furthermore, they want to thank people in the video. Thank them for searching. Most parents of missing children don’t thank anyone until their child is home safe. The fact that they do doesn’t sit well with me.

They aren’t being forthright with us, if you want my opinion. Too many hot spots on this one sadly. I feel for Summer and hope she defies the odds and is somehow okay. Not believing the parents doesn’t mean they killed her, of course, but it can’t be ruled out.

Disaster Girl and Josh Duggar Facial Expressions

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Disaster girl is what they called her! Look at that expression she is making in the video freeze above (or in the meme on the web)!! If that expression doesn’t wake up your spidey senses–I suspect nothing will! She should send your alarm bells ringing and put you on high alert with concern when you see that expression given the context!

Her expression is what I would call sublime: “Sublime experience has been defined as a mix of emotions – arousal, pleasure, and vitality – together with feelings of awe in nature, which is perceived as powerful, vast, and complex (source).”

If you don’t know, the fire in the photo/video above was actually a control burn, so while she enjoyed it immensely and perhaps had a fire fascination, there was nothing sinister there. However, not knowing the context of that photo made it down right creepy, right?

I think a sublime expression can easily become a sadistic expression with context. It’s what gave this photo that evil feeling the first time you saw it!

If she knew this house was a real uncontrolled fire, and made that expression, you’d (hopefully) get the feeling of danger, alert or alarm. Things may not be as they seem!! Take notice!!

This expression is a very uncommon expression for us to see — and along with the sadistic feeling– is why it probably made this littler girl made a good deal of money with the context! She made nearly $500K for it as it became very popular in internet memes.

But in rare fashion, it was just recently that I saw this expression again. Josh Duggar also made it when he was arrested for possessing and receiving photos of depicting sexual abuse of children.

Here is Josh’s arrest photo:

FAYETTEVILLE, AR - APRIL 29: In this handout photo provided by the Washington County Sheriff’s Office, former television personality on

Is he getting some sick perverse joy out of his arrest? I would call this a sublime expression as well. Why on earth would you feel that when you get arrested? I haven’t figured that one out!

While we don’t know the cause of this expression here, the idea of what he did and what he is being arrested for — makes you squirm. It makes the photo feel sadistic in nature, doesn’t it? But without knowing the context here, exactly, we can’t truly say. Something else may have made him feel this way which could make it benign. Without context the source of the emotion is unknown. But still, a fascinating and creepy expression, nonetheless, wouldn’t you say?

Next time you see a sublime expression–feel free to send it to me! They are rare!

Brandon Pettit: Asperger’s Complicates The Truth

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This past weekend, 48 Hours detailed the case of Scott and Janet Pettit, who were found shot dead in their home in 2013. Whoever shot them also set fire to the Pettit’s home.

Police became suspicious of the couple’s son, Brandon, who suffers from Asperger Syndrome (more recently name Autism Spectrum Disorder) and after two interviews arrested him for the murders along with his friend. There is no physical evidence that was linked back to Brandon.

If you have followed me over the years, you have heard me talk about this disorder. It is a disorder where people who suffer from it don’t have the normal social filters like you or I do. They can’t read people like the average person can. They don’t understand social cues nor can they read emotions. To the average person, these people are socially awkward and don’t fit in. They don’t often express normal emotions either. They are typically flat emotionally, and that is normal for them.

Hence, people with Asperger don’t realize when they say things how it can be perceived as “off” or “unusual” or even as a “lie” when they are being honest. It is not uncommon for an Asperger person to say things that make them look suspicious when they aren’t.

For example, you might say to an Asperger patient: Have you thought of killing someone? Most people have casually thought about it or said “Oh, I could just kill her (for doing that)!!”, but won’t admit to something like this in an interview because they didn’t do it seriously — it was a quick anger response that was fleeting. But to an Asperger person–the question is black and white. You either did or you didn’t — and they will confess. They don’t grasp the nuances of it.

If you ask an Asperger person if they went out running errands last night and they went to the Target for say a Starbucks, they may say no. And be totally honest in their mind. Target wasn’t for errands. To them getting a coffee wasn’t an errand. It was getting something to eat or drink. To get an accurate answer out of an Asperger patient, you would have to say did you go to Target? Or did you buy a drink last night? You have to be very clear or things will get confusing fast. You can’t jump to the conclusion they are lying like you would with a normal person.

Overall, people with Asperger syndrome are also very honest–honest to a flaw, however it appears that Brandon liked to make up stories and lie. So he is an extra ordinary case that would require intense study to get to the truth.

If you aren’t familiar with the mindset of this disorder, questioning a person with Asperger syndrome to get the truth is very difficult. You can’t apply the same rules as you do for normal people. I’ve assisted in these cases when I could see major misunderstandings.

My work kept an innocent person out of jail and perhaps prison for life. I believe without question this person would have been convicted if it weren’t able to assist in this case. Thankfully the investigators trusted me and dug much deeper into the case and exposed the real killer, who was convicted.

While there are definite red flags in Brandon’s behavior, until I could view the actual interviews, I am unable to tell you what I believe in this case. For me, it could go either way still. But I do not think Asperger patients should NOT be put into interviews without an expert who understands this disorder to bridge the gaps, or we risk serious harm to them, their families and others, if the wrong person is locked away and the real killer is free to roam!

48 Hours: Scott Peterson Revisited

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CBS 48 Hours revisited the Scott Peterson case this past weekend. Did you catch it? In 2004, Scott Peterson was convicted of killing his wife and unborn child in a largely circumstantial case. He was given the death penalty for the crime.

Peterson’s death penalty sentence was overturned in August 2020 by the California Supreme Court. The reason is Peterson’s trial judge dismissed jurors who opposed capital punishment without asking if they could put their views aside which shouldn’t have been done. Peterson, however, did not have his conviction overturned. His new sentencing is supposed to take place this summer.

Janey Peterson, Scott Peterson’s sister-in-law claims that Scott Peterson is innocent and explained how the family has created a war room to fight on his behalf to get his conviction overturned. Janey believes the burglars across the street from the Peterson home are involved in Laci’s death.

Unfortunately, nothing that Janey presented offered me something concrete to bite into. You could easily argue away her theories presented.

Janey really loses her credibility when she suggests that someone tried to frame Scott Peterson.

Janey Peterson: Her body wasn’t taken to the bay December 24th. The bay wasn’t sealed off as a crime scene. …There are multiple points of access directly to the water, 24 hours a day. I think they took Laci, had Laci, realized the national attention that this case was getting, realized they were in trouble. What better way to get outta trouble than go put the body where the husband was?

So if you believe Janey, you believe someone took, harmed and killed Laci, but oh decided to sit on the corpse not knowing what to do with it. You know, no worries. Then when the story broke and it was a big story, oh wow! They found their way to get out of the crime. They will “frame” Scott by placing the body in the bay.

I don’t think you can come up with something more outlandish than that. Add to the this that when authorities went to arrest Scott Peterson, he wasn’t at home or trying to solve her murder. No, he was down in San Diego golfing, with DYED blond hair with 15K in cash in his pocket. It seemed this grieving husband was about to possibly leave the country. Yeah, that’s what innocent victims do.

I don’t think so!

I can tell you nearly ever clip of Scott Peterson I see, he is leaking clues like a sieve. And he leaks them every time. If you attended my class, I showed you some of them! They are really hard to argue when you see them pointed out.

The reporter in the 48 Hours show picked up on one clue herself. Scott Peterson’s wife is missing during their interview. When his cell phone rings, he doesn’t even think to answer it? If your spouse was missing, would you ignore phone calls? A man who knew his wife was dead certainly would. And he’d also would not want anything to interrupt his “show time” on TV.

Men like Peterson lie so much they think they can fool anyone, until their arrogance and ignorance trips them up. He wanted TV time to convince people he was innocent. I think that backfired on him big time. People instinctively knew his behavior didn’t add up.

Even more so, when you watch that interview, listen to his demeanor. He play this low-key, monotone character. It’s his attempt to act concerned and sad, but he doesn’t show an ounce of sadness. True sadness activates muscles in the face that for Peterson are not moving!

And yes, Scott Peterson’s smiles during the trial did not bode well for him. He wasn’t a grieving victim in this case. Not at all. I believe all the circumstantial evidence built a strong rope as the prosecutor said that told the real story. I believe Scott Peterson is exactly where he should be.